When we think of dementia, memory loss is the symptom that immediately springs to mind. However, focusing solely on forgetfulness can cause delays in diagnosis, which is crucial for maximizing the effectiveness of available treatments. Dementia is a broad term encompassing many different types—like Alzheimer’s, Vascular Dementia, and Frontotemporal Dementia (FTD)—and for a substantial number of patients, the first signs manifest as non-cognitive or non-memory symptoms. In fact, research indicates that Behavioral and Psychological Symptoms of Dementia (BPSD) affect up to 90% of those diagnosed over the course of their illness, and sometimes they appear years before severe memory loss. Recognizing these seven lesser-known early indicators is the first step toward getting help.

1. Sudden Loss of Empathy or Social Filter
This startling change, often a hallmark of the behavioral variant of Frontotemporal Dementia (bvFTD), involves a profound loss of social awareness and inhibition. A person may suddenly make inappropriate comments, tell offensive jokes, or demonstrate a lack of tact or sensitivity toward others’ feelings. While memory is often intact in the very early stages of FTD, the breakdown of cells in the frontal and temporal lobes—areas linked to personality and judgment—causes this shift. This disinhibition is a crucial red flag that can be mistakenly dismissed as a late-life personality quirk.
2. Profound Apathy and Loss of Motivation
Apathy is one of the most common early symptoms across several dementia subtypes, with studies frequently citing it as the most frequent neuropsychiatric symptom in Alzheimer’s Disease (AD), affecting up to 56.7% of patients in some studies. This is not simple laziness; it is a clinical lack of motivation, interest, and emotional response. The person may cease engaging in hobbies they once loved, show no enthusiasm for social interaction, and have difficulty initiating tasks, even simple ones. This state of profound listlessness can sometimes precede classic memory issues by several years and is often confused with clinical depression.
3. Visual-Perceptual Difficulties and Misjudging Distance
For many, particularly those with early-stage Dementia with Lewy Bodies (DLB), the disease first attacks the brain’s ability to process visual information. This is distinct from simple vision loss and can cause issues like misjudging distances, struggling with stairs, or having trouble locating objects on a patterned tablecloth. This visual-spatial impairment means a person may struggle to follow a line of text or find it difficult to navigate familiar spaces, even when their eyesight is certified as good.
4. Worsening Anxiety and New-Onset Depression
Mood disturbances are incredibly common early markers. Depression and anxiety often show up before significant cognitive decline, with some research suggesting they can be an important “red flag” in the detection of dementia. This is not the typical sadness of life events; it is a persistent, overwhelming sense of fear, sadness, or restlessness that seems disproportionate to their circumstances. For example, a person may become extremely anxious about going to new places or meeting people, leading to withdrawal. One study found that 69.2% of patients had pre-dementia neuropsychiatric symptoms, often accelerating the transition to full-blown dementia.
5. Difficulty with Financial and Organizational Tasks
Long before they forget their children’s names, a person with emerging dementia may struggle with complex tasks involving planning and sequential steps—a skill known as executive function. This may include significant difficulty managing finances, following a recipe, or successfully using new technology. They may become increasingly confused over budgeting or balancing a checkbook. When a person starts making repeated, inexplicable errors with money, it is a key functional sign that their brain’s organizational centers are under strain.
6. Sleep Disturbances and Acting Out Dreams
Disruption of the normal sleep cycle is a significant non-cognitive symptom. For individuals who go on to develop DLB, one of the earliest signs can be Rapid Eye Movement (REM) Sleep Behavior Disorder. This involves physically acting out vivid, often frightening dreams—punching, kicking, or shouting during sleep. This is not just restless sleeping; it is a specific parasomnia that can precede the cognitive decline associated with DLB and Parkinson’s Disease by years, making it a powerful early predictor.
7. New Problems with Language and Finding Words
While related to memory, this is more a problem of language retrieval and communication fluency. The individual may experience frequent pauses during conversation, struggle to find the right word, or substitute an obscure or non-sensical word for a common one (e.g., calling a watch a “hand clock”). This language decline, known as aphasia, can be a dominant early symptom in certain variants of dementia, making conversation difficult and frustrating, and causing the person to withdraw from social settings.
The Urgency of Early Non-Memory Symptom Recognition
Non-memory cognitive and behavioral changes are not just secondary symptoms; they are core indicators of the underlying neurodegeneration. Clinicians are increasingly being advised to consider prodromal dementia in older adults with new-onset psychiatric or behavioral symptoms. Early diagnosis—often achieved by looking beyond memory loss—allows for intervention strategies, lifestyle modifications, and access to drug trials that can improve clinical outcomes and, critically, reduce the burden and distress felt by caregivers, who often struggle most with these behavioral symptoms.
If you have observed several of these non-memory signs in a loved one, would you like guidance on the steps to take for a comprehensive neurological and cognitive assessment?